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Maximizing Your Visibility

When people run profile searches, the profiles come up in a particular order. The sooner your profile comes up, the more people will see you, and the more messages you’ll receive. I recommend that you investigate the way your service runs searches and take steps to make your profile come up sooner.

Often, new members show up first, which is why you’ll receive the most messages in your first few weeks of membership. If that’s the case, the only way to maximize your visibility is to cancel your current membership and start fresh.

Profiles may also be sorted by most recent login. In that case, you can maximize your visibility by logging in frequently. In particular, you should login during the evening on weeknights and Sundays, when the most people are online.

Some services prioritize the profiles that have been updated most recently. To maximize your visibility, change your profile frequently.